Are letters of recommendation important?
Most colleges will require
one to three letters of reference as part of the application. A strong
letter of recommendation is important to show how professionals close
to you view your character and credentials. Their observations and referrals
are highly respected by college admission counselors.
Who should I ask to write them?
Begin by considering teachers, coaches,
guidance counselors, club advisors or work supervisors who know you well
and can speak articulately about the special qualities you possess. Narrow
the list to four professionals who know you best. Ask them to write the
letter of recommendation at least one month prior to your earliest deadline.
This courtesy will allow them adequate time to prepare and write a strong
letter for you.
How will they know what to write about me?
You may want to ask your references
to focus on specific qualities or skills that you consider strengths.
Give your references your college resume, activity list, or a “brag
sheet” to
help them write a stronger letter of recommendation. This detailed background
information will help them relate all of your accomplishments and interests
to your academic success. Be sure to provide your references with the
appropriate forms that are provided by the college. For tips on writing
the college
resume...
What if they seem too busy to write one?
Some popular teachers will be
called upon more frequently to write recommendations. This is why it is
important to ask them as early as possible. You will likely find that if
given enough notice, most people you admire will be delighted to write
you a letter of support. Politely remind them one or two weeks prior to
the recommendation’s due date.
Can I read what my reference wrote?
Sometimes your references will be
delighted to share the letter with you while other times, it may be uncomfortable
or not allowed. If you are concerned that it may not be a positive evaluation,
ask! Many colleges want the letter of recommendation sealed in a envelope
that they provide. Others may request that the reference mail it directly
to the college. In this case, include a stamp and an envelope when you
ask them. On the application form you may want to waive your right to view
the recommendation letters. This may give your references increased credibility
as it shows your faith in their assessment.
Should I send my references a thank-you note?
Once your college applications
are complete, show your gratitude. Always send your references thank you
notes and keep them updated about which campus you have decided to attend.
Keep them involved in your college search. They will be pleased to hear
that they were able to help you by writing a letter on your behalf.
